Valentine's Day is approaching, which may leave you thinking: 'What should I write in my Valentine's Day card?'
We know not everyone has a way with words, which is why, along with a range of thoughtful and carefully curated Valentine's Day gift hampers and baskets, we've put together this guide on how to express your thoughts on paper.
In this blog, we aim to help relieve some of the anxiety that writing a Valentine's Day gift message can create and give some practical prompts on how to get started.
Top tips for writing meaningful Valentine's Day messages
As gifting experts, we are here to help you throughout the entire Valentine’s Day gift-purchasing process.
From our wide selection of Valentine’s Gifts, free UK delivery over £50 and named delivery direct to your loved one’s door - you can count on us. Every Valentine’s Day hamper from hampers.com includes the option to add a special, personalised gift message on checkout.
When putting pen to paper, we encourage you to think about both the type of person you are and the type of person your recipient is. This will make your Valentine's Day gift and gift message feel more authentic and heartfelt.
Are they someone who prefers something sweet and simple? Are they someone who loves a good laugh and light-heartedness? Or, are they more of someone who values something more emotive, elaborate and poetic?
1. personalised Valentine's Day messages
The best Valentine’s messages don’t sound generic; rather, they sound like you talking directly to them. Begin your card with their name or even a pet name you use just for them. Starting personally immediately sets the tone and shows this isn’t just another card plucked off the shelf.
For example:
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“To my favourite human, [Name]…”
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“Dear [pet name], my partner-in-crime…”
This small step transforms a standard card into something intimate, personable and memorable.
2. express your appreciation this Valentine's Day
A Valentine’s card is more than a simple “I love you.” Take the opportunity to explain why. Think about the little things they do that brighten your day or the qualities you admire most.
Instead of writing:
“I love you so much.”
Try something like:
“I love how you always know what I need, even before I do. You make the hardest days easier and the good days unforgettable.”
By highlighting specific traits or moments, your message feels personal and irreplaceable, which is something no store-bought poem or gift card could achieve.
3. keep it authentic and avoid cliches
Don’t feel pressured to write like a poet (unless that’s your style!) A Valentine’s Day card doesn’t have to be filled with grand declarations or flowery language. In fact, the most touching notes often sound simple and natural.
If you’re funny, lean into humour. If you’re sentimental, write something soft and tender. If you’re more straightforward, a direct “I love being with you every day” works beautifully. The trick is to write as you would speak and, trust us, your partner will appreciate the honesty more than a forced romantic gesture.
The “right” Valentine’s Day message depends on your relationship. Consider the dynamic you share with your partner and choose a tone that fits.
1. Romantic: Deep and emotional, perfect for long-term partners or spouses.
2. Playful/Funny: Lighthearted and cheeky. Ideal if humour is central to your relationship.
3. Sweet & Simple: Warm and to the point. Great for new relationships or those who prefer simplicity.
4. resurface a shared memory
Nothing makes a Valentine’s Day card more personal than anchoring it in your shared experiences. Bring up a memory that still makes you both smile, laugh, or even cry.
Examples:
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“I’ll never forget that rainy weekend when we got lost and laughed until our cheeks hurt.”
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“That first dinner date still feels like yesterday, except now I love you even more.”
Memories instantly transport your partner back to that moment, making your words richer and more meaningful. They show that you've put thought and consideration into your Valentine's Day gift and gift message, and that you truly value the experiences you've shared.
5. look forward to the future together
Valentine’s Day isn’t just about celebrating the present; it’s about recognising the love you’ll continue to share. Mention something about the future, whether it’s small daily moments or big dreams.
For example, something as simple as: “Here’s to more late-night Netflix binges and lazy Sundays together" or “I can’t wait to grow old with you and keep building this beautiful life.”
By weaving in the future, your message feels both hopeful and grounded, reminding your partner that your love is long-lasting.
6. don't overthink your Valentine's Day message
Sometimes, the pressure of Valentine’s Day makes people overcomplicate their cards. Remember: it’s not about being perfect, it’s about being personal. Even a few honest words, scribbled quickly, can mean more than an elaborate attempt to impress.
Writing a Valentine’s Day card doesn’t have to be stressful. At its core, it’s about being real: showing your partner that you see them, value them, and love them for who they are. Whether you choose a romantic declaration, a funny inside joke, or a simple heartfelt note, the effort you put into your words will mean more than any shop-bought gift. Words that mean so much on Valentine's Day
Give the perfect Valentine's Day gift this year
The power of words is phenomenal…writing down your thoughts and feelings to share with another is a gift in itself.
Choose those words wisely this Valentine’s Day and truly celebrate all that is special about the loved one in your life. Remind him or her of all that they mean to you. Create a message that they can keep and cherish.
Happy Valentine’s to you from all at hampers.com.
